• PRACTICE AREAS

  • ATTORNEYS

  • TESTIMONIALS

  • PODCAST

  • BLOG

  • MEDIA

  • CONTACT

  • More

    Divorce Attorney Monmouth NJ
    Divorce Attorney New Jersey

    Red Bank          Rumson          Toms River          Long Branch          Sea Bright          Monmouth Beach          Deal          Holmdel          Monroe Township          Sea Girt         Spring Lake          Brielle          Point Pleasant        Ocean Township        Middletown        Fair Haven        Little Silver        Freehold        Marlboro        Manalapan        Old Bridge        Navesink        Shrewsbury        Jackson         Howell        Ocean        Monmouth        Middlesex        Somerset 

    © 2021 by Sylvia S. Costantino ESQ., LLC  Proudly Designed By Adapting Social

    Red Bank Child Custody

    FIGHTING OVER FIDO: CUSTODY DISPUTES OVER PETS


    We all love our pets and think of them as family members. In fact, how many of us refer to our dog as our “baby” and go out of our way to bask in that unconditional love they give us? Yet, when it comes to divorce, the deep personal bond that we have with our pets is not recognized by the New Jersey Family Court in perhaps the way that we think it should be. In New Jersey, there is no “best interest” standard for pets; which is the standard used in child custody cases. While pets are still treated as “property” in a divorce, our courts now recognize that pets may have a “special subjective value” and should be treated differently than other types of property.

    As it pertains to most marital assets in a divorce, if the parties cannot agree on how to divide an asset, the court will likely order it sold and the proceeds divided. However, a monetary value cannot be assigned to a beloved pet like you can to another piece of property, such as a dining room table. Pet owners who do not get their pet in the divorce are not going to be satisfied with money or simply buying a new one. Pet custody is a growing area of concern not just in this state but across the nation. So where does New Jersey stand in all of this?

    In 2009, the landmark case of Houseman v. Dare sparked a positive shift away from the traditional treatment of pets as just “property” to recognition that pets may have “special subjective value” such that a forced sale or monetary compensation will be inadequate. The Houseman case involved an engaged couple and their pedigree dog, Dexter. When the couple split, the woman asked the man if she could have Dexter and he agreed. Later, when the woman left the dog with the man while she went on vacation, he refused to return the dog upon her return. The trial court judge viewed Dexter as personal property and granted possession of the dog to the man (because the dog was in his possession at the time) and awarded monetary compensation to the woman. On appeal, the Appellate Division held that specific performance was an available remedy for the oral agreement. The case was remanded for further proceedings, and ultimately the trial court put a joint possession schedule in place, whereby each party would enjoy Dexter for five-week stretches at a time. During the time that Dexter was with either party, they would absorb all costs associated with his care. The trial court again cautioned that pets are still property and that “the best interest of a child standard” would not apply to a pet custody case.

    The Appellate Division’s recognition in Houseman that the special and unique value of a pet is not easily determined or simply divided, paved the way for our Superior Court judges to set up joint possession arrangements for pets. In deciding the fate of your pet after divorce, the court may consider evidence such as which party cared for the pet, walked the pet, trained the pet, bought toys for it, and the degree of significance of the pet to each of the parties. If there are children born of the marriage, this would likely be a significant factor. Make sure that all paperwork for the pet is in order, including your name being on vet and ownership records. Above all, try to be compassionate. Just as much as you love your pet, your spouse likely has a close attachment as well.

    If you and your former significant other are unable to agree on the possession of the family pet, please contact me today at 732-741-2600 to set up a FREE 30-minute consultation.


    Featured Posts
    Relocation after Bisbing v. Bisbing

    Relocation after Bisbing v. Bisbing

    College Contribution in New Jersey

    College Contribution in New Jersey

    Five Things You Can Do Right Now To Speed Up Your Divorce

    Five Things You Can Do Right Now To Speed Up Your Divorce

    {"items":["5e793a6ff1ec77002dadd358","5e793a6f73e1440018ac0477","5e793a6f385b28002ee2ace7"],"styles":{"galleryType":"Strips","groupSize":1,"showArrows":true,"cubeImages":true,"cubeType":"fill","cubeRatio":"100%/100%","isVertical":false,"gallerySize":30,"collageDensity":0.8,"groupTypes":"1","oneRow":true,"imageMargin":0,"galleryMargin":0,"scatter":0,"chooseBestGroup":true,"smartCrop":false,"hasThumbnails":false,"enableScroll":true,"isGrid":false,"isSlider":false,"isColumns":false,"isSlideshow":true,"cropOnlyFill":false,"fixedColumns":1,"enableInfiniteScroll":true,"isRTL":false,"minItemSize":120,"rotatingGroupTypes":"","rotatingCropRatios":"","columnWidths":"","gallerySliderImageRatio":1.7777777777777777,"numberOfImagesPerRow":3,"numberOfImagesPerCol":1,"groupsPerStrip":0,"borderRadius":0,"boxShadow":0,"gridStyle":0,"mobilePanorama":false,"placeGroupsLtr":false,"viewMode":"preview","thumbnailSpacings":4,"galleryThumbnailsAlignment":"bottom","isMasonry":false,"isAutoSlideshow":true,"slideshowLoop":false,"autoSlideshowInterval":3,"bottomInfoHeight":0,"titlePlacement":"SHOW_ON_HOVER","galleryTextAlign":"center","scrollSnap":true,"itemClick":"nothing","fullscreen":true,"videoPlay":"hover","scrollAnimation":"NO_EFFECT","slideAnimation":"SCROLL","scrollDirection":1,"scrollDuration":400,"overlayAnimation":"FADE_IN","arrowsPosition":0,"arrowsSize":18,"watermarkOpacity":40,"watermarkSize":40,"useWatermark":true,"watermarkDock":{"top":"auto","left":"auto","right":0,"bottom":0,"transform":"translate3d(0,0,0)"},"loadMoreAmount":"all","defaultShowInfoExpand":1,"allowLinkExpand":true,"expandInfoPosition":0,"allowFullscreenExpand":true,"fullscreenLoop":false,"galleryAlignExpand":"left","addToCartBorderWidth":1,"addToCartButtonText":"","slideshowInfoSize":160,"playButtonForAutoSlideShow":false,"allowSlideshowCounter":false,"hoveringBehaviour":"NEVER_SHOW","thumbnailSize":120,"magicLayoutSeed":1,"imageHoverAnimation":"NO_EFFECT","imagePlacementAnimation":"NO_EFFECT","calculateTextBoxWidthMode":"PERCENT","textBoxHeight":0,"textBoxWidth":200,"textBoxWidthPercent":50,"textImageSpace":10,"textBoxBorderRadius":0,"textBoxBorderWidth":0,"loadMoreButtonText":"","loadMoreButtonBorderWidth":1,"loadMoreButtonBorderRadius":0,"imageInfoType":"ATTACHED_BACKGROUND","itemBorderWidth":0,"itemBorderRadius":0,"itemEnableShadow":false,"itemShadowBlur":20,"itemShadowDirection":135,"itemShadowSize":10,"imageLoadingMode":"BLUR","expandAnimation":"NO_EFFECT","imageQuality":90,"usmToggle":false,"usm_a":0,"usm_r":0,"usm_t":0,"videoSound":false,"videoSpeed":"1","videoLoop":true,"gallerySizeType":"px","gallerySizePx":220,"allowTitle":true,"allowContextMenu":true,"textsHorizontalPadding":-30,"showVideoPlayButton":true,"galleryLayout":5,"targetItemSize":220,"selectedLayout":"5|bottom|1|fill|false|1|true","layoutsVersion":2,"selectedLayoutV2":5,"isSlideshowFont":true,"externalInfoHeight":0,"externalInfoWidth":0},"container":{"width":220,"height":284,"galleryWidth":220,"galleryHeight":123,"scrollBase":0}}
    Recent Posts

    CO-PARENTING IN THE FACE OF A NATIONAL PANDEMIC What You Can Do to Help Your Children

    Now You Can Blog from Everywhere!

    Now You Can Blog from Everywhere!

    Design a Stunning Blog

    Design a Stunning Blog

    Grow Your Blog Community

    Grow Your Blog Community

    Relocation after Bisbing v. Bisbing

    Relocation after Bisbing v. Bisbing

    “My Friend Told Me That When She Got Divorced. . . .”

    “My Friend Told Me That When She Got Divorced. . . .”

    Understanding the Basics of Custody Neutral Assessments

    Understanding the Basics of Custody Neutral Assessments

    What Children of Divorce Wish Their Parents Knew

    What Children of Divorce Wish Their Parents Knew

    What Child-Related Expenses Do Child Support Payments Cover?

    What Child-Related Expenses Do Child Support Payments Cover?

    Is a Non-Custodial Parent Responsible for Contributing to a Teen Driver’s Car Insurance Payments on

    Is a Non-Custodial Parent Responsible for Contributing to a Teen Driver’s Car Insurance Payments on

    {"items":["5fe1de42f5cebf001728cb2a","5e793a661fbab8002d6bd04d","5e793a661fbab8002d6bd04c","5e793a661fbab8002d6bd04b","5e793a6ff1ec77002dadd358","5e793a6f704482002d325312","5e793a6f902f3f002d7abd42","5e793a6fa06e32002ec335df","5e793a6f385b28002ee2ace6","5e793a6f73e1440018ac0476"],"styles":{"galleryType":"Columns","groupSize":1,"showArrows":true,"cubeImages":true,"cubeType":"max","cubeRatio":1.7777777777777777,"isVertical":true,"gallerySize":30,"collageAmount":0,"collageDensity":0,"groupTypes":"1","oneRow":false,"imageMargin":5,"galleryMargin":0,"scatter":0,"chooseBestGroup":true,"smartCrop":false,"hasThumbnails":false,"enableScroll":true,"isGrid":true,"isSlider":false,"isColumns":false,"isSlideshow":false,"cropOnlyFill":false,"fixedColumns":0,"enableInfiniteScroll":true,"isRTL":false,"minItemSize":50,"rotatingGroupTypes":"","rotatingCropRatios":"","columnWidths":"","gallerySliderImageRatio":1.7777777777777777,"numberOfImagesPerRow":3,"numberOfImagesPerCol":1,"groupsPerStrip":0,"borderRadius":0,"boxShadow":0,"gridStyle":0,"mobilePanorama":false,"placeGroupsLtr":false,"viewMode":"preview","thumbnailSpacings":4,"galleryThumbnailsAlignment":"bottom","isMasonry":false,"isAutoSlideshow":false,"slideshowLoop":false,"autoSlideshowInterval":4,"bottomInfoHeight":0,"titlePlacement":["SHOW_ON_THE_RIGHT","SHOW_BELOW"],"galleryTextAlign":"center","scrollSnap":false,"itemClick":"nothing","fullscreen":true,"videoPlay":"hover","scrollAnimation":"NO_EFFECT","slideAnimation":"SCROLL","scrollDirection":0,"scrollDuration":400,"overlayAnimation":"FADE_IN","arrowsPosition":0,"arrowsSize":23,"watermarkOpacity":40,"watermarkSize":40,"useWatermark":true,"watermarkDock":{"top":"auto","left":"auto","right":0,"bottom":0,"transform":"translate3d(0,0,0)"},"loadMoreAmount":"all","defaultShowInfoExpand":1,"allowLinkExpand":true,"expandInfoPosition":0,"allowFullscreenExpand":true,"fullscreenLoop":false,"galleryAlignExpand":"left","addToCartBorderWidth":1,"addToCartButtonText":"","slideshowInfoSize":200,"playButtonForAutoSlideShow":false,"allowSlideshowCounter":false,"hoveringBehaviour":"NEVER_SHOW","thumbnailSize":120,"magicLayoutSeed":1,"imageHoverAnimation":"NO_EFFECT","imagePlacementAnimation":"NO_EFFECT","calculateTextBoxWidthMode":"PERCENT","textBoxHeight":26,"textBoxWidth":200,"textBoxWidthPercent":65,"textImageSpace":10,"textBoxBorderRadius":0,"textBoxBorderWidth":0,"loadMoreButtonText":"","loadMoreButtonBorderWidth":1,"loadMoreButtonBorderRadius":0,"imageInfoType":"ATTACHED_BACKGROUND","itemBorderWidth":0,"itemBorderRadius":0,"itemEnableShadow":false,"itemShadowBlur":20,"itemShadowDirection":135,"itemShadowSize":10,"imageLoadingMode":"BLUR","expandAnimation":"NO_EFFECT","imageQuality":90,"usmToggle":false,"usm_a":0,"usm_r":0,"usm_t":0,"videoSound":false,"videoSpeed":"1","videoLoop":true,"gallerySizeType":"px","gallerySizePx":1000,"allowTitle":true,"allowContextMenu":true,"textsHorizontalPadding":-30,"itemBorderColor":{"themeName":"color_12","value":"rgba(221,221,221,0)"},"showVideoPlayButton":true,"galleryLayout":2,"calculateTextBoxHeightMode":"MANUAL","targetItemSize":1000,"selectedLayout":"2|bottom|1|max|true|0|true","layoutsVersion":2,"selectedLayoutV2":2,"isSlideshowFont":true,"externalInfoHeight":26,"externalInfoWidth":0.65},"container":{"width":220,"galleryWidth":225,"galleryHeight":0,"scrollBase":0,"height":null}}
    Archive
    • March 2020 (4)
    • September 2018 (1)
    • October 2017 (2)
    • January 2017 (1)
    • June 2016 (2)
    • May 2016 (6)
    • April 2016 (3)
    • March 2016 (2)
    • February 2016 (3)
    • January 2016 (1)
    • December 2015 (3)
    • May 2014 (1)
    Search By Tags
    No tags yet.
    Follow Us
    • Facebook Basic Square
    • Twitter Basic Square
    • Google+ Basic Square
    • Facebook Social Icon
    • Google+ Social Icon
    • LinkedIn Social Icon
    • Instagram Social Icon